Mary Had a Little Lamb Modern children are called in different ways, and all definitions are grounded. For example: "The children of the new millennium" - the young beings with extraordinary mental abilities; "Children of Light" - children's world is different from the usual; "Gifted Children" - the level of development of above average (not to be confused with school grades); France unusual children, the current generation is called the "Teflon Children" because do not stick to them generally accepted patterns of behavior; in America - "Indigo Children." The latter definition is becoming popular in our country. Quite a lot of attempts to define modern children, although the official term exists. All children are born innocent and good, every child is special. Professor, Doctor of Education N.V.Kuzmina (2002) says: "A healthy baby is born with a lot of creative potential. In the process of family education, learning potentials not only implemented, but sometimes blocked or self-locking under the influence of fear. " Children are born each with its own purpose. So apple seed will turn into an apple tree, rather than orange, and not in the bag. The main task of adults to help children grow up, to reveal a natural talent. Those. It grows like a tree, surrounded by love, fertilize, water, pass on their knowledge and experience and store them as a treasure. Modern education is experiencing a crisis of education. Every day the media show examples of juvenile delinquency, drug abuse, early pregnancies and suicide. Opinion modern parents why children are increasingly difficult: 1.Negativnye changes in society (advertising, violence on TV); 2.Vsedozvolennost of guilt in front of children, that little time is spent on education; 3.Delo to obsolete methods of education in kindergarten, school, etc. Problems of children begin at home and can be the same and resolved, parents should understand that only depends on them what their children grow up. The world is changing - and changing children. The old methods of education, such as bullying, shouting or spanking does not help to establish control over the modern children, and killing the child the desire to listen and cooperate, encourage today's children to revolt, and most importantly the old methods of education overlap the channel interaction and emotional communication with adults. Close adult children become a problem today because prevent them from developing. Fear limits the child's natural development. Creek on child deadens his ability to hear. The children listen to their parents or teachers when adults listen to them. If adults are constantly that either require a child, children are no longer hear them, the child is "turned off", as if play music at full volume, it will eventually be impossible to make out the words of the song, the same happens with the children, and at this time an adult loses control. In the modern children need to abandon punishment. The modern child learns everything by imitation rather than fear. So children are always programmed to imitate their parents and adult relatives. The brain child writes the image and then repeats what he saw. So if a child sees around respect, it is to learn to respect. If a child sees violence or make it over him, he would do the same with others. Violence teaches child to obscure, difficult for him to situations of violence to achieve their goal. Children subjected to violence, or hate yourself or the world around us: the boys become hyperactive with attention deficit syndrome; girls - self-destructive tendencies, low appetite, low self-esteem. New means of education: cooperation, motivation, control. Today's children need help, but not for the growth and less need and difficulties, problems that can not be harmless, but you must help them to overcome.